It has come to my attention that a lot of girls are seeking to get “collared” to do the D/s achievements.
This is not necessary and can be detrimental if you don’t know what you are getting into.
In D/s, collaring is roughly equivalent to marriage, it is intended to be semi permanent and is a huge commitment.
Unless you are a true sub/slave type and crave this kind of relationship, DON’T DO IT.
The achievements are intended as “scenes”… playspaces if you will. They do not need to be performed within the scope of a relationship. You do NOT need to find yourself a “Dominant” to collar you in order to do them.
Just find a person that is into D/s play, and play with them. Do not make a commitment if that is not what you are looking for.